Monday, 8 December 2008

Divorce Can Make You Ugly Unless...

Taking care of relationships issues in a clear and decisive manner is the latest and wisest breakthrough in cosmetic procedures!

Right now I need to be very blunt. Unless you start doing something different than what you’re already doing you will experience life with a mind and body bloodshot with the dark veins of despair. Unless you do something different you will start aging yourself at an accelerated rate. Have you ever noticed what stress and worry does to peoples faces? Divorce stress is is much worse because it penetrates everything in your life. With divorce stress its not just your face that ages, its your entire body! I’ve noticed that unless divorce issues are handled decisively and steps to healing are taken that people just get UGLY, they really do. Misery warps the face and wrinkles the skin prematurely with dark shades and a heavy countenance. You need to take care of your face by doing something different than what your doing. Take steps to prevent UGLINESS right now!

5 comments:

The Decision Advisor said...

Here's an email I just got from Kevin:

Once again the truth is revealed. I wonder how long it will be before people really start getting that when the marriage is complete and the lies have stopped that the ugliness and the facial distortion and the self loathing will cease and a new vibrant, bright, lively person will manifest itself to the world. I have seen in my own life and relationships how ugly I can became because I choose to not let go and move through and own the experience of pain, frustration, anger, and all the other dark emotions that come from this anxiety of not coming to completion with a relationship. Relationships can be amazing and loving and powerful if only human beings start living a spiritual being life. I have seen women gain 10 years on their face because they thought they were going back to a "healthy" marriage only to find out that people don't change and then they wonder just what the hell happened. I own who I am and I know that I get to experience freedom and healing as I go through my own self discovery. It's ok to question everything; it's ok to feel the darkness that surrounds, its ok to be. Corey is very insightful and clear on these aspects of ugliness. I wish more people got this, hell I wish I could get it as clearly as Corey.

Thanks

Kevin Day

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Your too kind kevin. But, You are so right!

SellCivilizationShort said...

Any campaign of systematic harassment can make the victim neglect his appearance.

Divorce is a systematic harassment.

Ergo, divorce can make men ugly.

Anonymous said...

Just a quick thought...
It seems that men and women after a divorce go through a "changing" stage. For example many women I know get breast implants or a tatoo or both. Men also seem to step up the grooming. New clothes, new hair etc. Is this related to the ugly feeling from a bad marriage?

Anonymous said...

Corey,

Very interesting thought that the stress of a bad relationship can make you "ugly". I broke up with a guy years ago because I realized it wasn't working when I noticed I had started to develop a wrinkle between my eyebrows. I kid you not, after we broke up it went away! No man or relationship for that matter should make someone so stressed out they start to wrinkle. It was a big wakeup call for me. If I'm going to have wrinkles from relationship I want them to be laugh lines because I can't stop smiling!

Brenda

Anonymous said...

The ugliness of divorce can ooz from an individuals body language. It seeps through the paws, it covers the skin with infestations and travels from internal, spouse loathing dialogue through to the ears of a friend or colleague that is happily skipping along their path of life. Conversation is then centered around and upon the 'divorce' which is a conversation killer...a dis-ease that spreads like wild flower and is overflowing with negative emotional energy that leaves one/many people leaving a room carrying its vermon and weight into their once 'happy' life path. Divorce is ugly to listen to and its negative energy origins is very contagious!